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The Candles

Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2011 1:16 pm
by Michele Monro
A lot of people, who couldn't attend the event, have emailed asking what the candles were for, this was what was said at Fans Reunited:

IT’S BECAUSE YOU ARE ALL CONSIDERED SOME OF MATT MONRO’S STAUNCHEST FANS THAT A FEW MONTHS AGO I CASUALLY MENTIONED THAT ANYONE ATTENDING TODAY MIGHT LIKE TO BRING A CANDLE. I WASN’T PREPARED TO GIVE A REASON BUT IT WAS MORE A MATTER OF TAKING A LEAP OF FAITH - THANK YOU TO EVERYONE THAT HAS DONE JUST THAT.

IN JANUARY I AM TAKING A LEAVE OF ABSENCE SO TO SPEAK AND TRAVELLING ACROSS TO AUSTRALIA. I’VE NEVER BEEN BEFORE AND HAVE FAMILY THERE THAT I HAVEN’T SEEN IN MORE THAN 40 YEARS. I WILL LEAVE SYDNEY IN THE MIDDLE OF APRIL AND CRUISE ACROSS THE SEAS TO SAN FRANCISCO. FROM THERE I AM DRIVING ACROSS TO LAS VEGAS TO VISIT THE LITTLE CHURCH OF THE WEST, THE PLACE WHERE MY PARENTS RENEWED THEIR VOWS. THE CHAPEL IS STILL THERE AND IT’S A PLACE MY PARENTS WERE TRULY HAPPY.

IN THE EARLY 1980S WE MOVED TO AMERICA ON A PERMANENT BASIS AND DAD STARTED DOING THE CIRCUIT ON THE VEGAS STRIP AFTER AN ABSENCE OF SOME 14 YEARS. THE SHOWS WERE SO SUCCESSFUL THAT THE POWERS THAT BE RANG SHORTLY AFTER TO OFFER HIM A 6 MONTH RESIDENCY TOPPING THE BILL AT THE SANDS HOTEL THE FOLLOWING YEAR. THIS WAS INDEED THE ICING ON THE CAKE FOR A PERFORMER SUCH AS MY FATHER AND HE WAS ECSTATIC THAT HE HAD MANAGED TO CLAW HIS WAY BACK TO THE TOP OF THE LADDER AND CEMENT A FUTURE THAT LOOKED FABULOUS. UNFORTUNATELY HE PASSED AWAY A FEW MONTHS LATER, IT JUST WASN’T MEANT TO BE.

HIS WILL MADE NOTE THAT HE WAS TO BE CREMATED AND HIS ASHES KEPT AT HOME UNTIL SUCH TIME WHEN MY MOTHER COULD JOIN HIM. LAST MARCH, THEIR ASHES WERE INTERMINGLED AND HAVE SAT AT THE HOUSE IN HARROW SINCE MY MOTHER’S FUNERAL.

YOUR CANDLES ARE COMING WITH ME TO LAS VEGAS AND WILL BE LIT JUST BEFORE THE RELEASE OF THOSE ASHES. I FELT THE CHAPEL A FITTING PLACE TO MAKE THEIR FINAL JOURNEY FROM. YOUR GIFT TODAY GIVES YOU A CHANCE TO BE THERE AS MATT MONRO TAKES HIS FINAL BOW WITH THE PERSON HE LOVED THE MOST AT HIS SIDE, WHERE MY MOTHER STOOD THROUGHOUT HIS LIFE. I AM GLAD YOU ARE ABLE TO SHARE IN THAT MOMENT.

Re: The Candles

Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2011 1:19 pm
by karl
Michele what a beautiful tribute, and the way you wrote this was perfect.

Re: The Candles

Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2011 3:59 pm
by mariana44
That brought me to tears at the time--and again just now. It was not something that I ever imagined would happen. Such an inspiring thought.

Re: The Candles

Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2011 4:37 pm
by Sandra
Yes I agree Marian.There were many moments yesterday afternoon where we choked back the tears and this was the main one.
A wonderful idea :)

Re: The Candles

Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2011 6:00 pm
by Marian
We agree too, those few words "Your candles are coming with me to Las Vegas" is still bringing a lump to my throat. We feel so blessed to be able in a small way to be a part of such a personal time.

Re: The Candles

Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2011 6:57 pm
by john
We were all in agreement Michele, it is a lovely idea. We all felt tears in our eyes when you told us your plans.

Re: The Candles

Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2011 7:01 pm
by MAC
Hear, hear.

Re: The Candles

Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2011 7:03 pm
by karl
The more I hear, see, and read about Matt the more I wish I had the chance to see him perform and even have a chat with him.

Re: The Candles

Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2011 8:05 pm
by Lena & Harry Smith
We had One or Two thoughts of what the candles may have been requested for, but nothing brought tears to our eyes ( like it is right now ) :cry: more than when Michele explained and said that they are coming with me to Las Vegas.
We were there at Mickies funeral to witness the poignant moment when the Two doves were released, that was to signify the joining of Two people so much in love.
We feel honoured that we shall be part of this special family time.

Re: The Candles

Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2011 5:46 pm
by Christine Hampshire
What a wonderful idea Michele, we wondered what the candles would be for and when
you said they were coming with you to Las Vegas we thought how lovely that
we were in some way included in it all. So lovely of you to do this and include
us all, an honour to a beautiful couple, so much in love together again where they
belong MR & MRS MATT MONRO god bless

Chris Graham

Re: The Candles

Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2011 8:04 pm
by mark and marie
We could never imagine that the candles would be used in such a historical, romantic and loving way. We are truly honored and blessed to have been able to participate. Our hearts and spirit will be with you on this journey Michele. THANK YOU