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by jon » Fri Aug 01, 2008 8:51 am
Taking up Keith's analysis of homophones, and of commonly employed words that have a similar sounding counterpart which is less frequently used, the words COMPLACENT and COMPLAISANT come to mind.
COMPLACENT, of course, means 'contented, self-satisfied, unconcerned, even smug' (e.g. "he had become complacent after years of success"), and comes from the Latin 'complacere', to please.
COMPLAISANT, by contrast, means 'an inclination to please or oblige; tending to others' wishes': "In her behaviour, she was respectful and complaisant, even to servility; she attempted to flatter and fawn upon me at first, but I soon checked that" (Anne Bronte, The Tenant of Wildfell Hall). Now almost never used in everyday conversation, though still used in written form.